MY DEAR FUTURE SON

I am not sure whether i will have you or whether i will have a daughter.

But in case if you exist, i will be happy to have you to be honest.

It will surely take me years to find out about how it is to be a boy.

Do you wanna know something?

You are going to be brought up and live among of human beings.

Never take that granted.

There is no doubt that you will be already given every kind of freedom to enjoy that a girl would have always wanted to have.

But there something that i need to tell you and that can be explained to you only from a woman's point of view and the rest is your dad's part.

Before you shout at your sister for posting her hijabless picture in social medias, make sure you aren't praising the similiar picture of someone else sister or daughter.

Remember that, majority of the girls in the world would have cursed their luck for not being able to be a boy.

You have to be proud for not being a girl who is constanly questioned and cristicised for her morality and appearance wherever she goes.

Never judge a girl because her appearance or dressing.

She  must be a lot better than those who dress well and do sins secretly.

Nothing hurts a woman as badly as being victim to these.

Never disrespect a woman in your life this way.

Just in case if you have felt like doing so, think about me once at least and imagine what would you feel it had been me in her place.

The best gift you could ever give a woman is RESPECT.

Trust me nothing will please her the most than this.

You should also know that a girl's heart isn't something you can play with.

If you fall in love with agirl truly, make sure that you have the guts to ask to her parents.

Never dominate her by thinking that you process her.

Never make her loss faith in having the company of a boy just because of her mistake you have made.

Never supress a woman anywhere and thing that she is beneath your feet, just because there is belief that she was born from the rib of man.

Never label a woman as a bad one just because she has many boys as friends or if she talks to them to much.

Never force the beliefs or morality you have been taught on a woman.

Every woman has their own freedom and rights to live in their own way.

They all must have been taught the good and bad in everything. 

But at the end of the day, it is them who has to decide whether they should follow it or not.

Make sure you do not do things to a woman that will make people question about the way i have raised you.

Ultimately, you will be raised into that kind of a man whom every women in this world would have prayed to have in their life as a brother, husband and father.

Hopefully ❤